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Why I Created My Premature Ejaculation Course

men's sexual health personal premature ejaculation Mar 12, 2019

For years, I got calls from men all over the world who felt doomed to finish too soon forever. Most had tried everything they could find: sprays, numbing creams, herbal remedies. None of it had given them what they wanted.

I had spent years developing a way of working with this in my sessions, and I saw it help the men who came to me. But I could only sit with so many people. I wanted the men who would never walk through my door to have it too.

How it got made

I spent more than eight months planning. I wrote the whole script myself, all 85 pages, and it became twelve chapters.

Then came two days of filming, and my nerves. Would this actually help anyone? Could I hold it together on camera? Could I get my points across? I'd never filmed anything like it.

I did hold it together. And somewhere during the first day, as one chapter after another came together, I understood what we were making: years of what I'd learned from hundreds of men, available to people I'd likely never meet.

I didn't do it alone. Barbara Abel coached me on camera and kept me steady. Ben Cristou, my public speaking coach, helped me find my voice as a teacher. Sally Hansen produced the whole thing. Heather Bettencourt did my hair and makeup after driving through the thickest fog I've ever seen in Sonoma County at four in the morning. And my family and friends lifted me up when I couldn't do it myself.

There was also a pink dildo that kept turning up stuck to windows around the set. Film crews know how to have fun.

What the course is

The PE Mastery video course is 12 modules built around my 5-step approach. It's the same work I do with men one-on-one, at your own pace, in private, with lifetime access.

It isn't magic, and it isn't fast. It's practice: learning to feel more arousal with less anxiety, so you have more say in when you finish.

Is it the right place for you to start?

Ask yourself three questions:

And if anything about your situation feels medical, like a sudden change, pain, or trouble with erections, see a doctor first.


If finishing sooner than you want has become a worry, my PE Mastery video course takes you through the full practice, step by step and at your own pace.

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